It is with a great deal of trepidation that we meet new friends in person for the first time. When I say ‘friends’, I mean those relationships forged through blogging or other social media. I refuse to call these friendships ‘virtual’ as they feel quite real along the way, and yet there is a certain level of anxiety about finally meeting in the flesh.

Yesterday my friend Julie from New Zealand visited for lunch. I have got to know Julie quite well through her blog, Frogpondfarm, and pursuant comments. She started out posting about her organic garden but as time ticked by and her passion for photography developed, her posts began to reveal so much more, with forays into the starkly beautiful central Otago countryside of the south island, and her fascination with weathered wooden posts and barbed wire, or dried grasses and flowers, and raising chooks. Her photos of early morning walks with her dog along the thundering West Coast beach in the North Island of New Zealand take my breath away. Her vineyards in the south island produce the ambrosial grapes that go into Toi Toi Pinot Noir wine, a year or two before they loll and sway about in my mouth. Toi Toi Pinot Noir is a most pleasing drop, not only for the taste of that dry, cool terroir of the South Island, but reminiscent of the wines of the Beaune area of France too. It is also well pleasing to my wallet. I knew we would get on well- we have too much in common. The four hours went in a flash.

As we strolled through my desiccated summer garden on the way back to the car, she silently gathered a handful of dried seed from a Marguerite daisy bush. Some to spread about and some for her pocket? It was a precious moment, now frozen in my mind, one that no photo could capture, nor words seize. Seeds are the great mementos in life. It is something that I like to do too.
This well-known and timeless cake goes well with Julie, such a beautiful and warm-hearted woman. The recipe comes from Stephanie Alexander but as Stephanie says in her introduction, it was made famous in the 1960s by Elizabeth David. It is rich and moist, yet so simple to make.
Reine de Saba Chocolate Cake, with Berries in Season

- Butter for greasing
- 125g dark couverture chocolate, (or 70% chocolate ) chopped roughly
- 1 tbsp strong espresso coffee
- 1 tbsp brandy
- 100g softened unsalted butter
- 100g cup caster sugar
- 100g of ground almonds
- 3 large eggs, separated
- Icing sugar, for dusting
Method
Preheat oven to 160C. Butter an 18cm- 20 cm tin and line it with paper. Use a springform tin if you are sure it doesn’t leak, as this cake is fragile and often cracks when turned out.
Combine chocolate, coffee and brandy in a bowl over water or in a double-boiler. Stir when melted and add butter and sugar and mix well. Add almonds and stir in well. Remove bowl from the heat.
Lightly beat the yolks and stir into the bowl. Beat egg whites to soft peaks. Lighten chocolate mixture with a spoonful of whites, then fold in the remaining whites carefully and lightly.
Bake for 40-45 minutes. The cake will test a bit gooey in the centre. Cool completely in the tin before slipping onto a serving plate. Dust with icing sugar.

And a big thanks to lovely Paula for accompanying Julie and driving her out into the wilds here. It was a delight to meet you. You made it all happen

Elizabeth David’s cake is an old fave, thanks for jogging my recipe memory.
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I look for recipes my daughter in law will like: this fits the bill!
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So this cake is flourless? It looks so moist and tasty. What a wonderful time you had….it sounds like a memory that won’t be forgotten!
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I agree with you that our blog friends are real, not virtual. So nice for you all to get to meet. Lovely photos and recipe.
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A beautiful cake… and perfect to share with friends x
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Definitely one to share! I know Lizzie that you probably know this cake recipe, but it was time to share it out there again. An old fave.
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What a sweet story. I agree that you can make friends by sharing interests through blogging. The cake looks divine.
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True Lori. The cake is so easy and always works.
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I am giving a little party soon and this would be perfect! Thanks!!
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I’m pretty partial to a pinot noir myself Signora, especially in Summer. Do you know any Southern Italian dialect – we came across another NZ wine called Manaia – the name gave us all a great chuckle.
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No Manaia has me stumped. Is it the same as the Italian Mannaggia, sort of damn it?
I came across a wonderful Italian word the other day- Soffocone- meaning blow job. It’s also the name of an Italian wine. I just love how creative the Italian language is when it comes to crude language.
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Glad to see you’ve found a use for “desiccated”! I’m going to make this cake as I have bags and bags of ground almonds…:)
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I can thank you for that word plant and the spell check warning.
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I couldn’t resist those seeds … 😃 You are a treasure Francesca. Thank you so much .. We had a wonderful time! I’m so lucky to have you as a friend … Hugs
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Hope your time in Melbourne was enjoyable. xx
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It was lovely ..😄
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I second Ardy’s sentiment. Despite the distances, I feel that blog friends are real. Great prose and delicious recipe. And where was the cream?
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He always has the task of beating the cream. It did arrive. These shots were taken the next day as we were too busy yacking to take photos.
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Absolutely I have learned blog friends can become real life friends, and I’m amazed and gratified by the synchroncity that brings us together… they have enriched my life beyond measure… and are now esssential, as are cake and wine 🙂
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Cake, wine and synchronicity- that sounds like a good name for a blog.
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Gorgeous looking cake and a lovely meeting of friends.
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It was a very enjoyable occasion.
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A lovely post. I’m revisiting some Elizabeth David books as I load them onto Eat Your Books. This cake looks divine (and I’m not even a chocolate cake eater!).
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I don’t eat much cake either- I only make the ones that I know will work.
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Oh my, this cake looks absolutely delicious!
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Thanks Mary. It’s an old standby.
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I love to blog because of the people I meet and the friends I make . I wil make this great looking chocolate cake soon.
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I really do not feel at all anxious when meeting blogging friends anymore, Francesca. I’ve met a few and, without exception, they were positively lovely and the time shared was memorable, as was your time with Julie and Paula. Isn’t it nice to be able to place a face and voice to the person you only know through the written word? This cake sounds wonderful! I’ll be passing the recipe to my GF friends and family. Thank you!
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Great recipe Francesca.
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Awesome blog!
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